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How many masks are you wearing?

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How many masks are you wearing?

How many masks are you wearing?

Take them off.

The masks we wear

Halloween, or better yet All Hallows’ Eve, is literally the Eve of All Saints’ Day, a Christian celebration held on November 1st. Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain.This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. They used to wear masks to hide themselves so they could not be discovered by the ghosts of the dead that returned. Thousands of years later, people are still wearing masks. Just as the Celts were scared of being found, fear still has a hold on us and many of us are hiding in this modern day society.

One of the most common reasons we wear masks is because of Imposter Syndrome- the fear that the world is going to find us out. One of our greatest fears is that if we show our true selves, we will be rejected by society. But just simply being ourselves is the best way to be. When we hide a part of who we are, we are denying a part of ourselves that does indeed exist. We are also not being our authentic selves, and therefore have to act upon something that is not true to our nature, and that is exhausting. We all go through tough times and sharing how you really feel when you are down instead of throwing on a smile and faking it through the day only makes you feel worse. And then you feel like you have to hide some more. Worst of all, you start forgetting who you really are. When we wear masks, we carve a piece of ourselves out- withholding parts of ourselves as unworthy. But in relationships, we can’t be truly healed unless we offer up all the pieces. 

Removing the mask
It may feel uncomfortable for you to show who you really are to the world, but the world needs you to show up, just as you are! When you're not being the real you, all of your relationships are built on a false foundation, which means they are not real. And ultimately, you have been lying to yourself. We were not born with these masks, we put them on, therefore we can take them off. The main risk we face is the world’s reaction. Opening yourself up sometimes threatens others, because it invites them to reevaluate their own lives. Many times, it forces them to realize that they too have the power to change, but they haven’t. The amazing thing that happens when you remove your mask is you encourage others to do the same. Once you do, you'll find that others will follow suit. Embrace all of who you are and share your gifts with the world. By doing so you'll find that being yourself led others to be their true selves too, so that none of us have to go around wearing masks anymore but can show our true face all the time. And who isn't tired of wearing masks these days...?

If you need help taking off your masks, and keeping them off, consider scheduling a session with me. Or sign up for Accessible Guidance, a monthly service that allows us to have quick, targeted voice memos back and forth to help you in the moment instead of having to wait to schedule a full session. You can be your true self and I can help show you how to be the real you to the world at large, with confidence. You no longer need to be afraid of expressing who you are or live in fear of showing your true face to others. Take off the mask and accept yourself.
Masks off: The Transformative Experience
Part of the work we will be doing in The Transformative Experiences is recognizing the masks that we wear and gently removing them to live more freely in our day to day lives. We were meant to live a life of full of joy and freedom, and besides society trying to keep us in a box, we have put ourselves in one and locked ourselves inside. The key to your own happiness is truly being your authentic self and expressing yourself without reservation. You were put on this earth to enjoy life and live abundantly. But first we have to break the bonds that created our negative thought loops and patterns that we inherited from our unconscious parents. They didn't know any better, they were just doing what was taught to them. And so did we. But now we do know better, and we know there is a way to break free. But first we must break down so we can have a break through, realizing that the mask of ego isn't doing us any good. It's time to stop being defined by what we have, what we do, and what our reputation is. We have all had the wool pulled over our eyes for far too long and it's time we emerged without any mask at all.

The next available Transformative Experiences are January 3-5, February 14-16, and March 21-23. Spaces and limited and slots are filling up fast. If you're ready to take your mask off and live as your true authentic self and enjoy all that this world has to offer you when you are true to yourself first and foremost, join us.
Breathe a little easier with The Substitute
Sometimes the masks we wear don't allow us to breathe. Isn't it horribly ironic that a man's whose last words were 'I can't breathe,' was just the beginning of the pandemic where all of us discovered that we were being suffocated by the confines of the system that holds us down? I can't help but wonder, because I believe that everything happens for a reason, that this was the 'perfect storm' that started to shatter all of our worlds, and showed us that all of our systems are broken. We have all been holding our breath for a really long time and we need a major exhale. But the only way to breathe once again is to stop hiding behind the system that doesn't work nor have any of our best interests at heart. We need to speak up, stand up, and collectively take a breath. Then take action. Please vote and join me on my revolution of saving the world. It is time for us all to breathe a little easier. In the meantime, consider trying The Substitute. A psychological/physiological tool to use instead of smoking (another system we have succumbed to, and don't even get me started on healthcare). 
No tobacco. No toxins. Simply air. Just breathe.
My Books- you only live once and mind.body.soul.
This is the only life you have. Don't waste it putting on a show for everyone else. This is not a dress rehearsal.
You can't hide from yourself. The more you do, the more work you're creating for yourself. Be free.
My Fragrances- Cuff, Sex, and Lust (all unisex)
Scents can change with your mood, or the season. You do have many facets to who you are. Express them all.
Intimate Conversations with Lady Kendra
Please join me every Monday evening on Instagram Live as I talk about life and such. Feel free to leave a comment or ask a question. Tonight I'm going to talk about the masks that people wear. Join the conversation at 9pm CET or get a front row seat. Now hosting Intimate Conversations in person in Florence, Italy from 7-10pm. Good conversation, great people, thought provoking experiences. Follow the journey @kendraleonard.
Find yourself.