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Loving others...

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Loving others...

Loving others...

how do you love thee?

Let me count the ways...

How we express our love for others has a huge impact on our relationships. There are many ways to show love and/or appreciation, but just to keep it simple, I decided to focus on something all of you have probably heard about already- the five love languages (time, touch, words, acts, gifts). Since we all have the same (but limited) time on our hands in any given day, how you spend it and who you spend it with, matters. Spending time with the people you love/care about (and being present while doing so) is the most precious, in my opinion. The more time you spend with someone, the more you get to know them, and by choosing to spend time with someone (especially exclusively) you are investing yourself into that person and vice versa. Another love language is physical touch. Hopefully if you're spending a lot of time with someone, you're also giving affection to them. Since our skin is the largest organ on the body, it's important we touch others and let them touch us, too. Giving and receiving hugs, kisses, caresses, sex, a simple touch on the shoulder goes a long way. Don't let time pass without offering your partner or someone you love some physical display of affection. Your survival depends on it. Backing up those physical gestures with words can only add to the amount love. Telling someone how much you love them, thanking them for the little things they do, and verbally complimenting them, demonstrates how you see them and what they do, and we all like to be recognized for who we are and what we do. Acts of service is how you back up your words, by reciprocating, and doing something special for someone else. Think of anything that can make your partner feel appreciated or that can help make their life easier, and do it. A simple act of kindness goes a long way. Lastly, give a gift. This one is definitely last on my list of love languages, but it's always nice to receive. Gifts can be anything that would spark someone's day for no reason, without expectation. And it always feels good to give...

Need help in your love relationship?
Consider scheduling a Chess Session with me. Chess stands for creative, healthy, exploratory, safe, sexuality. This is a session designed to help couples reconnect and reignite the passion in their lives or to make the decision to consciously uncouple. If you or someone you know is ready to change the circumstances of their relationship, or exploring options, let me know. Together we can talk through the past and current situation, to be able to move forward in whatever direction you and your partner choose. There is a healthier way to reunite or split up. Tik tok. 
The Substitute
Another way to express your love for someone (instead of your condemnation if you're trying to get your loved one to quit smoking or smoke less), is to tell them about The Substitute. This is a healthy alternative to smoking. Instead of tobacco and toxins, it is simply air. And because it's air, you can use it anywhere.This is a smokers dream and they will love you for life for telling them about this. This tool allows them to smoke in restaurants, movie theatres, hospitals, the office, airplanes, anywhere! Just imagine the amount of love you'll receive in turn... because oxygen is what actually relieves stress, anxiety, depression, mental fatigue, moodiness, etc. you'll not only have a healthier person, but a happier one too! Just breathe.
The Books- Available on Amazon and Audible
A life worth living is full of loving others...
Loving others is good for the mind, body, and soul...
The Fragrances- Cuff, Sex, Lust (all unisex)
It's easier to love others when they smell good! 
Intimate Conversations with Lady Kendra
Please join me every Monday at 9pm CET on Instagram Live as I talk about life and such. Feel free to leave a comment or ask a question. This week (if you couldn't figure it out already) I talked about loving others and the five love languages. I was in Bologna at one of my favorite pizza places, with one of my best friends, as we celebrated her birthday. Check it out to learn more about loving others and follow the journey @kendraleonard.
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