Scents have a way of turning us on, and until we actually try them on our skin, we actually don't know how we will react to them. Similar to people. This is why we 'try people on' in the dating process- to see who fits. We may like a person in the beginning of a relationship, but didn't you know that you are meeting their representative for the first 3 months? This is when they are on their best behavior and trying to win the other person over. Pro tip: always be yourself. If you are lying to someone else about who you are and what you're about, you're only lying to yourself in the end... This is why it is important to spend time with many different kinds of people so you can experience a myriad of personalities to see what you like/don't like. And then you can start to see what turns you on and what turns you off. One way to help turn on another person is through fragrance. You'd be amazed at what a few sprays can do to turn heads in your direction (or keep someone wanting more).

Have you only been with a woman? Or have you only been with a man? Sadly, today's society has not always made it acceptable to be with a person of the same sex or have multiple partners. But didn't you know that homosexuality and group sex has been in existence since the beginning of time? I remember climbing Mount Vesuvius two years ago and loving the fact that they had a postcard booklet of different sexual positions and partners. Because our skin is the largest organ on our body, it naturally makes sense that touch feels good for most of us. And through the pandemic, we have all become deprived. I find it interesting that not too long ago I had two conversations with people who admitted that they were with a same sex partner, but definitely preferred to have sex with someone of the opposite sex. Both of these people were embarrassed and scared to have the truth come out, because fear of being judged or ostracized by their inner circle. What if we normalized the fact that we could have partners of the same sex or share in an erotic experience with several people at one time? Of course maturity, integrity, respect, balance, and open-mindedness are all required for this quality experience. Why not try it? You just might like it. And there is no right or wrong answer. Whatever floats your boat is good for you, but don't knock it till you try it. We sometimes have a linear way of thinking. Sometimes there are more options that we don't consider, and we should. 

Find yourself.