Today is Positive Thinking Day!
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Today is positive thinking day!
You Create Your World
'There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so' is a quote from William Shakespeare's tragedy, Hamlet. This line explains the simplicity of life because technically, nothing is good or bad. That is all relative, but it can otherwise be deemed 'interesting' due to the fact that we are all different with unique experiences and perspectives. What is 'good' for one person, might feel 'bad' to another. But what if, we consciously thought about what we were putting out there. What if, every time we opened our mouths to say something negative, we stopped and turned it into a positive? Or, if that is too hard to do in the moment of whatever is going on, what if we just remained silent and sat with what was? By speaking positively, we are combating the problem of negativity. And we all know that this world could stand to lose some of that these days... Watch what happens when you shift.
Personal Positive Story
Before I left for Italy in July, I stayed with my lovely daughter for a few days. She had these cysts in her chest that I believed were some bad stuff rising to the surface that she had repressed for years (we had been doing a lot of healing). And as I watched her (as I am trying to be more of a silent witness these days), every time she was about to say something negative, she clutched her chest. After witnessing this phenomena several times, I realized that speaking this way was going against her very nature, and she literally had chest pain as the words were coming up. So, as her mother, I asked if she would try something from now on- if she would only open her mouth and make sure that whatever she said was in a positive tone, or with a positive twist. I also asked that she get out into nature every day. Since then, my daughter has been lighter, brighter, and better. For those of you who know me, you know that she and I have had quite a journey together. I was informed years ago that we had travelled together in many previous lives, but this was the first time where I was her mother. Since then, so many things have made so much sense and have helped me understand our dynamic even more. We all have a lot of work to do, but by keeping things positive, we have a much better chance of succeeding. And by doing it together, encouraging one another along the way, and giving ourselves grace even when we don't, we can all win the game.
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You Can Absolutely, Positively Come to Italy!
Have you been curious about this Transformative Experience that I have been speaking of? Has it resonated with your soul? If so, take that as a sign that this is something that you should consider doing. Don't let the fear or doubt (aka negativity) creep in and keep you from doing something that you want to do. I am inviting 7 people to join me in Florence, Italy on a Transformative Experience of the mind, body, and soul and one of them could be you! This is for people who want to do the work, but need some help getting started. You don't need to have any experience other than just simply being a human to attend. You can have the life you want and I am here to support you! This Thursday, September 15th is the last day to reserve your space for the Transformative Experience for a reduced rate of $2999. Afterwards, the price will increase to $3499. Everything is included except for airfare. Please join me this November 1-3 in Florence, Italy or share this with someone you know who would benefit from living a more positive way of being. This experience is guaranteed to make you look at the world (yourself) with a different lens.
https://www.ladykendra.com/us/transformative-experience.html
The Substitute
Another positive thing you can do for yourself is to quit smoking. If you do smoke and want to quit, this can help. Everyone knows that smoking is harmful to your health, but what no one ever told you was that what you craved was the breath. That deep long inhale and super long exhale is what makes us feel so good inside. But what doesn't make us feel so great is the tobacco and toxins that we are inhaling. Instead, smoke on this: The Substitute, a physiological/psychological tool to use instead of smoking that reduces stress and anxiety. See how positively marvelous you feel once you substitute one bad habit for a healthier one. You can quit, if you want to. But even if you don't, use The Substitute when you can't get that fix otherwise- in the airport, bus, car, hospital, house, mall, movie theater, restaurant, retail shop, therapist office, wherever. You can also use it as a wand, thinking stick, pointer, back scratcher, hand slapper, ass smacker, fidget calmer, and oral fixator. Just breathe.
https://www.ladykendra.com/us/the-substitute.html
The Books
My first book, you only live once, shows how positivity helped me throughout my husband's battle with cancer as well as his death.
My 2nd mini memoir, mind.body.soul., explains a plethora of positive ways of being/doing that will help you live a longer, happier life.
Ranked on Amazon and now available on Audible.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PCVCN4G
The Fragrances
Interested in putting on a positive spin on things? Try one of my signature fragrances. CUFF, SEX, and LUST are all unisex and are sure to elicit positive interactions between yourself and others. Even if it's just a smile... :)
https://www.ladykendra.com/us/threesome.html
Intimate Conversations with Lady Kendra
Please join me every Monday evening on Instagram Live as I talk about life and such. Feel free to leave a comment or ask a question. This week I shared ten simple things that you can do to invest in yourself. And if you want to start taking a turn towards the positive and need some help, consider scheduling a session with me. These messages are meant to help and inspire you, but these are only little nuggets of information. Imagine the work that we could do together on a one on one basis. Be a part of the conversation and follow the journey @kendraleonard.
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Find yourself.